You don’t deserve my grace

Recently, I have been inundated with people asking the question, “How do I forgive __________ for hurting me, and continuing to hurt me over and over again?” This is a common question, but an even more common struggle for the human heart. Let’s take a look at what Jesus has to say about why we should forgive.

Mark 11:25

And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.

I don’t know about you, but that’s a pretty significant motivator for me.

Additionally, it’s important to notice that Jesus draws extra attention to this issue of holding ill feelings toward the person. At what point, then, do we consider repeat offenders not worthy of any more forgiveness?

Matthew 18:21-22

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.

Jesus didn’t literally mean seventy-seven times. He was making a huge point to Peter. There is no end to offering forgiveness! One more time…and even one more after that…is not too much grace for anyone. Sure, they probably do not deserve your grace, but who really does? Seriously, what did you do yesterday or today to earn eternal life in Heaven? You and I cannot do anything to work our way toward earning God’s gracious, loving forgiveness. Aren’t you thankful that Jesus doesn’t regard us in the same way that we consider forgiving others?

Who do you need to forgive this week…or who do you need to ask to forgive you? Is it a co-worker, your spouse, church member, or possibly a parent? May you seek freedom and healing this week, and in doing so…you will be offering it as well.